Blake’s Take

Blake Johnson
Blake’s Take

Dear Yearning for a Vivid Life,

Thank you for writing in and trusting me to share some insight on your situation. It is not uncommon to experience lulls from time to time. In fact, low periods of motivation are natural and can even be rejuvenating. These moments offer an opportunity to explore alternate ways to be productive and to make plans for changing routines in pursuit of a more colorful life. The key is learning how to unwind without getting stuck.

Although I love adventure and trying new things, I can relate to what you are experiencing. The older I get, the more complacent I can become. I often find myself reflecting on earlier days when my wife and I would spontaneously take on a new activity or take off somewhere with little notice or planning. With age and responsibility, it seems we spend more time contemplating action than actually acting. That can be good when it comes to responsibility, but if we are not careful, life can become dull and regrets can take root.

At my age, the balance has already shifted. I have more regret for the chances I did not take and the things I did not do than for the ones I did. After all, none of us know how much time we have, so we should never let a moment pass without seeking a sense of fulfillment.

I believe the key to living a colorful life is learning how to step outside your comfort zone. When I say that, I do not mean trying something new once and then returning to the same routine. If you are dissatisfied with your existence, you must commit to changing habits and acting with intention. Otherwise, nothing will truly change.
If I were in your position, I would start by choosing an activity that genuinely intrigues you and begin making plans immediately. Break your goal down into small, manageable steps. First, research the activity to become familiar with it. Read articles, find a local place that offers it, and talk to people you know who have experience.

Next, take a tangible step toward completing it. Sign up if necessary, begin acquiring equipment or supplies, or start making travel plans. These actions help your mind move toward something new.

Be sure to celebrate each step along the way. This helps maintain excitement throughout the process. The more steps you take, the more motivated you become, and the more motivated you become, the easier it is to keep moving forward. I have practiced this myself, and sometimes all it takes is that first step to spark a new adventure.

Another important piece is accountability. Share your plans with those close to you. Talk about each step and how you intend to reach your goal. They can help keep you on track and encourage you to stay the course.

Finally, to break through a grayscale existence once and for all, when you conquer or complete one goal, immediately begin looking toward the next. The lull is the time to plan. The satisfaction of completion combined with the high of achievement can leave you vulnerable to complacency. It is important to keep looking ahead and never stop imagining what comes next.

Once you begin implementing these steps, it will not take long before seeking, planning, and living out adventure becomes a habit. When it becomes a habit, progression follows naturally, and you will be well on your way to a bold, colorful life.

I hope this advice helps. Follow those cravings, and never give up.

Sincerely,